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R in Ottowa Professor Barker Flett is obsessed with flowers rather than stone and so the motifs of pistil stigma style ovary stamen anther filament petal sepal receptacle p 42 become a pendant for the motif of stone Stone symbolizing a male permanence and the gravestone flowers representing a ffiminate side and Melody on Loan evoking lifeSome of thevocative images in the book are the tower that Cuyler Goodwill Daisy s father builds for his dead wife in Canada out of stones pilferred secretly from his uarry before moving to Indianapolis and the pyramid he starts as a time machine there in Indianapolis and dies building at the The Toll-Gate end of the book He was a man on the contrary who couldasily be sounded out given the spaceHis voice you might say became the place he lived p 85 Despite his gift for oratory gleaned from reading the Bible he is never uite able to bridge the gap between himself and his daughter probably owning to the fact that he was ccentric perhaps an artisan naif but not unapproachable not in the leastHis tongue learned to dance then learned to deal with the intricasies of vasion and drama fiction and distraction p 85 Perhaps it was this same tongue that kissed the tips of his wife s hair but which still serves as a buffer between himself and his own feelingsDaisy inherits this inability to connect to her own feelings marrying by default an alcoholic with who she never consumes the marriage he was always too drunk and who she sneezes out of a window in one of the novel s dark comic scenes For Daisy love is mostly the avoidance of hurt and futher she is accostumed to obstacles and how they can be overcome by readjusting her glance or crowding her concerns into a shadowy corner p 147Dasiy does finally find love later oddly with Flett s son who she stayed with in Canada after the death of his mother until she was Empire of the Saviours (Chronicles of a Cosmic Warlord, eleven and had three children Her daughter Alice is the one closest to her and we get her perspective a bit often than the other children The birds and bees discussion on pages 165 166 was particularly well written from Alice s perspective Her dream during the boring unsatisfying lovemaking of Barker about the film The Best Years of Our Lives What would it be like to be touched by cold bent metal instead of human fingertips What would it be like to feel the full weight of a man on her body pinning her hard to the world p 192 is also telling of her compromises in love and sexven in middle ageUnable to find a sexual outlet she turns to gardening In turn it perceives nothing of her not her history her name her longings nothing which is why she is able to love it as purely as she does why she has opened her arms to it taking it as it comes Ex On The Beach every leafvery stem Good Thinking every root and sign p 196After the pre mature death of her husband she takes over the column he wrote about gardening in the paper and finally has some individual success however short lived Cut short she loses the column due to an affair with the newspaperditor and drifts into a deep depression which her children and friends struggle to help her out of A few years later she moves to Florida with her remaining friends and lives the rest of her life at the Bayside Ladies Craft Club in her condo keeping her hands occupied filling and of the world with less and less of herself p 268 She comes to a sad but true realization No one told her so much of life was spent being old something I am personally struggling with Everything she Death in Mumbai encounters feels lacking in weight The hollow interior doors of her condo The molded insubstantiality of the light switches The dismaying lightness of her balcony furniture The rattling loose jointed cabs she sometimes takes p 280 Her attachments toarth then remain superficial as she Baccarat : La lgende du cristal enters her twilight years life thus far has meant accepting the doses of disabling information that have come her wayvery drop and stirring them with the spoon of her longing she s done this for so many years it s become second nature p 282This uote was also incredibly apt And it s occurred to her that there are millions billions of other men and women in the world who wake up O Colégio de Todos os Segredos early in their separate beds greedy for the substance of their own lives but obligedvery day to reinvent themselves p 283 This reinvention for Daisy is a necessary painful thing done without complaint as opposed to a new March Violets (Bernie Gunther, exciting way of precisely reclaiming one s own life Her pain hidden in her past remains too difficult for her to deal with directly and thus she takes this resigned approach The larger loneliness of our livesvolves from our unwillingness to spend ourselves stir ourselves We are always damping down our inner weather permitting ourselves the comforts of postponement of rehearsals p 291After a visit to her grandfather in the Orkleys north of Scotland her downhill slide becomes inevitable She has a massive heartattack and is recovering And her knees her poor smashed knees Amazing considering all this that she can remember the appropriate phrase amazing and also chilling the persevering strictures of
"Social DiscourseNever Mind It Means "discourseNever mind it means it s only Mrs Flett going through the motions of being Mrs Flett p 314Her daughter Alice comes to her during this final phase when she is turning into stone Knuckles of pearl Already dead Mineralized She reminds herself that what falls into most people s lives becomes a duty they imagine to be good to be faithful to an idea of being good A good daughter A good mother Endlessly heroically patient These Zoete tranen enlargements of the self can be terrifying p 326It remains unspoken about whether Alice decides to be in contact with herself than her mother was but she is the one child who is in a relatively stable marriage and having moved to England in seeming bliss and discovery As Daisy passes from this world Something has occurred to her something tr I love this book It has been 14 years since I have read it and I still remember clearly what it means to me Life is longand in this long life you lead a series of mini lives Inach life you become a different version of you We are blessed with the chance and sometimes forced against our will to reinvent ourselves again and again until one day we are very old and find that we are living in Florida wearing polyester pantsuits Did you Water Music ever imagine that would be you That person you marry at a ripe young age may become someone from your past that now seems as insignificant as an old high school boyfriend That job we have today that s so important may be a mere blip on the radar when we are 85 Will youven remember the name of the company It s something I like to think about And It Works Both Ways works both ways I hope that the life I m in never Revived ends and my fear is that one day its time will be up In other periods of my life I remember that nothing is forever and this some day may not be remembered by me at all Very few books have given me such a lasting message I plan carry it with me throughout my long lifetim. E for herself in her own life is a paradigm of the unsettled decades of ourraA witty and compassionate anatomist of the human heart Carol Shields has made distinctively her own that place where the domestic collides with the lemental With irony and humor she weaves the strands of The Stone Diaries together in this her richest and most poignant novel to date. ,
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Finishing this book I thought What a gloomy novel what a futile life Shields wrote a sort of biography of Daisy Goodwill from her remarkable birth up to her last fading moment of life in 10 chapters ach with an interval of about 10 years But it s not a linear story sometimes we hear Daisy speak sometimes an unknown narrator at other times immediate family and friends whether through letters or otherwise This very variegated approach creates a dynamic and xposes the contradictions and differences between how we see ourselves how others see us how through life xperiences we change the way we look at ourselves and others Daisy is the link between all the characters but Shields freuently zooms in on others and by doing so she Love for Imperfect Things exposes the profound changes they made in their lives and how they interacted with one anotherTwo insights prevail 1 How in our lifetime we are sometimes forced to radically re invent ourselves to give our lives a different direction and most people can manage this 2very life is basically a life of its own and in that sense really lonely in A Heart of Stone each chapter the word loneliness appears as a pivotal characteristic of life all characters including fathers wives daughters sons live their lives just next toach other almost Taking Instruction (Taboo, exclusively from their owngocentric point of viewShields was a remarkable writer 1935 2003 indeed and this book you can ualify as rich in life wisdom In that sense it reminded me much of Penelope Lively who wrote the introduction to this book also with the same special sensitivity to gender issues Personally I think her final chapters are a bit too gloomy and her sketch of Daisy as an Language and Linguistics elder rather shocking But perhaps I m closing myyes to reality here rating 35 stars This is a slow intricate telling of the life and death of Daisy Goodwill Flett The glorious writing is so sensual thick with substance so original wise wise and wise that I often had to stop to contemplate or just digest Effortlessly Carol Shields shifts from third person to first jumps subjects stories returns to the present and sometimes Divertimento even comments on the first person protagonist Daisy and her ability to manipulate the truth And finally she sticks it to any reader who is honestnough to admit her own arrogance in believing she can understand the motivations and hidden feelings of any dead beloved relative Carol Shields is a writer s writer and per the Pulitzer this book won obviously a reader s writer Without Love Is a Fairy Tale explanation I want to bellow This work makes me feel saneHow sad I am that Shields is dead and can t be my friend How glad I am she left a long legacy of books that I can now imbibe This book won a Pulitizer Prize in 1995 and it was an honor well deserved I d neverven heard of it I just picked up up at the Goodwill because the description on the back cover intrigued me but once I picked it up I couldn t put it downThe story is a fictionalized autobiography of one Daisy Goodwill Flett Born I didn t like this book but it was mostly because I didn t like the main character and her lack of personal substance She never Promise at Dawn everven once feels any joy passion or grief There is one period in her life where she appears to xperience depression but again there is a lack of strong motion which really is typical of depression A person who has three children marries twice and is widowed twice usually Bangkok Wakes to Rain experiences some sort of deepmotion This flaw in her personality had me lacking The Right Sort of Man (Sparks Bainbridge Mystery empathy with her It seems the author s basic premise is that the main character Daisy lacks strongmotion because she was not raised by her biological mother who was herself an orphan and that these things have some how caused both her and her mother to
*be inherently flawed Either that or Daisy has physically inherited this dysfunction frominherently flawed Either that or Daisy has physically inherited this dysfunction from her mother but I lean toward the former of some passages in the story They lack passion and passionate Darkmere expression Daisy never hears she is loved nor do you find lovexpressed by her her mother Mercy never said she loved nor otherwise xpressed love although she was loved greatly and with deep passion by Daisy s father What I did like most was the author s use of symbolism Stones and flowers are heavily used perhaps overly so at times There is the building of monuments by Daisy s father of course made of stone his life as a uarryman Daisy s gardens her second husband s love and knowlege of plants names of characters and much If that sort of thing xcites you you might love this book for that aloneI would also like to say I m surprised so many reviewers found this book funny I thought it was terribly depressing There are a few amusing passages but I couldn t see calling the book as a whole funny And lastly it is strange to me that this is considered a fictional autobiography Most of the time it is third person narrative granted there are points when Daisy is apparently refering to herself in the third person as Mrs Flett or some such which I found a bit disturbing I suppose it helps contribute to that feeling of her lack of sense of self the void within her life that she herself doesn t really fill is not capable of filling There are other times it does not feel like her voice just narrative and there is just a small portion of the book that is in first person It does not feel at all like a diary which again may be for the Den of Shadows (Gamblers Den effect of distancing the main character from herself Someone with this personality disorder might write a memoir in this manner and call it a diary I suppose And it does cover Daisy s life from beginning tondThe novel s well Written And I Think and I think author achieved what she set out to do Overall just not my cup of tea The Stone Diaries is the story of one woman s life Daisy Goodwill Flett comes into this world in a strange and tragic circumstance The book follows her through her life to the moment of her death You might say she has an ordinary life in many ways and perhaps that is part of the point Shields is making that all lives are the same because no matter how different they are from their fellows all lives are lonely isolated journeys Only one person feels or knows who you are and that person is youMany of Shields characters are consumed with looking backward dwelling in their pasts and trying to unravel the lives they have led but hardly understand They struggle with what it is to relate to others what it is to love or to be loved Is this what love is he wonders this substance that lies so pressingly between them so neutral in color yet so palpable it need never be mentioned Or is love something less something slippery and odorless a transparent gas riding through the world on the back of a breeze or Scraps Of The Untainted Sky else and this is what he and believes just a word trying to remember another wordThere is a theme of loneliness and isolation that runs through the book a kind of rancor underlies herxistence still the recognition that she belongs to no one Even her dreams release potent fumes of Also see Alternate Cover Editions for this ISBN ACE ACE #1 The Stone Diaries is one ordinary woman’s story of her journey through life Born in 1905 Daisy Stone Goodwill drifts through the roles of child wife widow and mother and finally into her old age Bewildered by her inability to understand her place in her own life Daisy attempts to find a way to tell .Her Mother But I Lean Toward Themother but I lean toward the *
BsenceThe odd thing about the pictures that fly into Daisy Goodwill s head is that she is always alone There are voices that reach her from a distance there are shadows and suggestions but still she is aloneShe is alone but not uniue among the people she The Eric Carle Gift Set encountersfor they all seem to me to be alone and struggling as well And much of the loneliness on view here is self inflicted as if the fear of connection is stronger than the need to touch the others to be joined Carol Shields makes one choice in writing this novel that puzzles me that is her decision to have the opening chapter in the first person the following chapter in both first and third person but obviously the same voice and then to tell the rest of the story in the third person until one fleeting comment that is made first person in the final chapter I know it is a very intentional choice a device that is meant to achieve something major in the structure of this novel but I have failed to comprehend its purpose and that is going to bother me for a while It might just be an attempt to make us realize thatven within ourselves there is an other that is separate observing and virtually unknown to us Perhaps the first person is the soul It is the best Huguenot Prophecy and Clandestine Worship in the Eighteenth Century explanation I have been able to come up with If anyonelse who has read this has a thought I would be very interested in hearing itThe metaphor of the stone having things carved in stone the building of monuments the hardening of the heart and the soul and the impenetrable walls that divides us from one another runs from the beginning of this novel to its Fashion Design Course end It winds its way like a river throughvery major character and recurs in names thoughts and physical manifestations One thing is for sure no need to put RIP on Daisy s tombstone The Stone Diaries tells the story of Daisy Goodwill Flett s troubled life beginning and Aeralis (The Frost Chronicles, ending with sadness and death There is so much to absorb about the character s in this short novel that I feel the need to read it again and probably will at some point but for now Mercy MercyCuyler Goodwill loved you soWhy did you not share your secret I did like this somber 1995 Pulitzer Prize winner that does actually have a few laughs and one shocker but was somewhat annoyedach time the storyline came to an abrupt halt at a crucial juncture throughout the telling In the Alternatives Chapter 2 (The Chronos Files; The Shattered Saga end thankfully most of the missing puzzle pieces do unite and Wow What powerful last words from Daisy view spoilerI AM NOT AT PEACE sure wish Cuyler would have told Daisy how much he loved her mother given her affection and Mercy sngraved 18k wedding ring as he once planned instead of burying it in the time capsule under the pyramid hide spoiler The type of book others rigorously want to imitate That is the Cincinnati and Other Plays elusive turn of the century All American novel with myriad glimpses at gorgeous post millennial metafiction The Stone Diaries no doubt inspired other works of immeasurable brilliance like T C Boyle s World s End and Coetzee s Elizabeth Costello it is heartbreakingndearing and best of all uite accessible Although the Puig like tricks that is Latin American lit concessions are uite distinguishable The symbols of marble and hard rock as counter contrasts to flimsy flowers and biology are made Speak Out! eternal in this must read novel It s a true reminder of the pesky but overpowering relationship between life and death or thethereal and the tangible This one deeply astonishes A breathtaking and thoroughly original novel I m completely in awe of the choices Shields made in the shaping of this narrative The whole is flawlessly cohesive The parts are poetry unto themselvesEssentially it s a book about loneliness I Like You the Best every kind of loneliness starved suffocating denied cherished physicalxistential or simply the result of petty misunderstanding And it s not always clear cut She allows for ambiguity She allows for the reader s subjective response whatever that might be And then she gently guides you to a different vantage point one you hadn t consideredThe body through birth sex illness
"And Death Is Discussedgraphicallybut With "death is discussedgraphicallybut with grace such reverence such heartbreaking candor it s actually beautifulThis novel struck me to the coreI love it so much I don t The collectors encyclopedia of antique marbles even want to know what others have said about it My next read going backwards through the Pulitzer winners is The Stone Diaries by Carol Shields This book also won Canada s top book award the name year and was a National Book Award finalist as well All these awards and praise were well merited as this is a well written and compelling story about a woman s life from birth to death Daisy Goodwill is born at the turn of the century to a mother who passes away while giving birth and a father who is an accomplished stonemason in rural Canada The themes of lifedeath and the metaphor of stone percolate through thentire book starting with the title The Stone Diaries We hear Daisy writing her journal with decade breaks between the chapters mostly in the 3rd person and we get a sense throughout of her feeling of dislocation in her own life Her beginning was also her mother s The Philosophy of Giambattista Vico ending thisvent underscores the lifedeath motif and distorts her concept of timeIt has never been Lone Star Standoff easy for me to understand the obliteration of time to accept as others seem to do the swelling and corresponding shrinkage of season or the conscious acceptance that one year hasnded and another begun There is something here that speaks of our Punishment Of The Cheating Wife essential helplessness and how the greater substance of our lives is bound up with waste and opacity Even the sentence parts sieze on the tongue so that so say Twelve years passed is to deny the fact of biographical logic p 27 Baby Daisy is certainly helpless and is taken under the wing of her neighbor Mrs Flett who absconds with the baby to live with Daisy and her son Barker Flett in Ottowa Daisy will not see her father again until the death of her aunt someleven years later In fact ach of the chapters is about a period of her life Birth ChildhoodDeath and focuses with many meandering diversions of the chapters is about a period of her life Birth ChildhoodDeath and focuses with many meandering diversions of on one key defining vent Another theme in the book is sex and how various characters Decision experience it Her mother dies in the course of giving birth to her marking sex as something with potential danger Her father is similarly distant fromveryone but his precious rocks but he has a special and The View from Alameda Island eternal fascination for his dead first wife the gathering of tenderness rising blood a dark downward swirl ofcstasy and then this seems to him particularly precious the miraculous reward of shared sleep his beloved beside him her breath dissolving into his A coil of her hair will be loosened on the shared pillow and without waking her he will kiss the tips of this hair p 36Throughout the narrative again proposed in the form of a diary we also peek into the minds of many people that Daisy knows during her long life after all as she says Life is an ndless recruiting of witnesses p 36 Her caretake. Er story within a novel that is itself about the limitations of autobiographyHer life is vivid with incident and yet she feels a sense of powerlessness She listens she observes and through sheer force of imagination she becomes a witness of her own life her birth her death and the troubling misconnections she discovers between Daisy’s struggle to find a plac.